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ANXIETY

Cross to the other side
"Anxiety's like a rocking chair.  It gives you something to do, but it doesn't get you very far."  - Jodi Picoult
These suggestions are not a substitute for working with your therapist.  For additional help, please schedule a therapy visit.

Just take a deep breath

During stress, the nervous system's fight-flight-or-freeze system overshadows the rest-and-digest system.  It becomes harder to see, hear, perceive, and think clearly.  It becomes incredibly difficult to problem solve, reason, and integrate wise emotion with behavior.  Pushing through can make matters worse.  Instead, try to bring your rest-and-digest system back online with simple breathing practices:
  • How to Perform the 4-7-8 Breathing Technique, by Andrew Weil, MD 
  • Belly breathing, by Nemours 
  • Guided breathing - Develop the Witness Perspective, by Lion's Breath Counseling  

Ground yourself in your senses

Grounding yourself in your senses and watching nature can also help you bring your rest-and-digest nervous system back online: 
  • Five Senses Meditation, by Lion's Breath Counseling 
  • Body Scan, by Lion's Breath Counseling 
  • Guided Sensory Questions, by Lion's Breath Counseling 
  • Yoga for Anxiety with David Procyshyn of DoYogaWithMe 
  • Calm Radio 
  • Monterey Bay Aquarium Jellyfish Cam 
  • Cornell University's FeederWatch live webcam 
  • Nature Relaxation films by David Huting 
  • BBC's Springwatch nature webcams 

Move mindfully to relax 

Try Tai Chi arm swings.
Try a 15 minute relaxation yoga practice with Jason Crandell.

Practice mindfulness daily

You can train your nervous system to be more resilient to stress and anxiety by practicing mindfulness daily for a few minutes.  The key is to practice daily, even if only for a minute or two.  Try to find several practices you enjoy and cycle through them. 
  • Malcolm Huxter free guided meditations 
  • Blooming of A Lotus, by Thich Nhat Hahn 
  • Plum Village app 
  • Calm app 
Or if you need help structuring your practice, get started with a program.
  • DoYogaWithMe's Let Go of Anxiety and Fear 21-Day Program 

Cut the root of suffering

Analytical meditation can help you identify and transform root causes of suffering.  
  • Venerable Thubten Chodron on Insight Timer 
  • Sharon Salzberg's Metta Hour podcast 
  • Jack Kornfield's Heart Wisdom podcast 
  • Joseph Goldstein's Insight Hour podcast 

Educate yourself about anxiety

  • New York Times:  How to Combat Your Anxiety One Step at a Time 
  • AnxietyCanada 
  • Don't Believe Everything You Think or Feel 
  • The Shyness and Anxiety Workbook 
  • The Anxiety and Worry Workbook 
  • Mindshift CBT app by AnxietyCanada 
  • Moodpath app 

You may also want to explore helpful downloads and more meditation practices on this website. 

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​Tue - Wed 10 am - 9 pm 
Thu 8 am - 3 pm
​Sun 4p - 8p 

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In crisis?  Please call 911 or go to your local emergency room.  
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*I am licensed to treat patients in Pennsylvania (LCSW #CW013287), Massachusetts (LICSW #119344), Michigan (LMSW #6801100720), California (LCSW #83491), and Florida (LCSW #SW16327 ).  ​I abide by the NASW Code of Ethics.  
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